A couple of years ago I was reading an interesting article from Time Magazine about the demise of the nuclear family. One of the things they attributed this cultural phenomenon to was the loss of the family dinner table.  The article mentioned that over the last several decades’ families have been eating together less often than ever before.  With the advent of fast food, busy schedules, differing obligations, and the TV, the traditional family simply has no time to eat together anymore, the article stated.  The outcome, according to the author, was an attenuated or weakened family structure that is not good for anyone involved.  I would strongly agree with that conclusion because it echo’s a biblical truth found in the book of Mark which says, “And if a kingdom be divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand.  And if a house be divided against itself ,that house cannot stand“. Read more…

In a recent conversation with someone I was reminded of a principle that we would all do well to remember.  We were talking about some of today’s great college athletes who never fulfilled their potential.  Though exceptionally talented; they failed to succeed in both sport and life.  The reason was because “their talent took them to a place where their character could not sustain them”.  Think about that principle for a moment; talent is not enough.  Undergirding all we do is our character and if it is deficient in time it will be exposed and we will come tumbling down.  Every year we hear about athletic stars who get themselves into trouble and lose a scholarship or millions of dollars in the pro’s because of poor character.  We too can lose much when placed in positions of leadership or responsibility and then because of undeveloped character we break a trust, or talk poorly of someone, or fail to do right.  The place we held could not be sustained because we lacked what was most important…character.  Be careful not to let your talents, abilities, intelligence, or even relationships take you where your character cannot sustain you.  The friendship we have, the talents God gives, and the abilities we develop are all wonderful gifts, but all must be supported by character.   It matters!  Pastor